56-year-old Madonna was exposed to be eating young grass

Introduction: After the 56-year-old music queen Madonna broke up with dancer Timor Steffens last year, she has been single. However, she was recently said to have taken a fancy to the male model Andrea Denver, who is 33 years younger than her. She recently uploaded a half-naked photo of the other party on Instagram and left a message praising his eight-pack abs. Andrea also responded by leaving a message saying that Madonna is his idol and even revealed to people that he would definitely be willing to date Madonna. Madonna, now 56 years old, still maintains a young heart. Just imagine having a young, energetic and healthy boyfriend by her side, emitting positive energy. Isn't she a winner in life? Young and handsome men make girls blush and their hearts beat fast, but they are actually not as difficult to deal with as you think.

Things to note during initial contact

You want to date a young hunk, but you don't want him to think too much about anything other than the date. It was originally just a relaxing and enjoyable pastime, but suddenly one day he starts to care about whether you are socializing too much and starts trying to interfere with your every move. It's really a shame to think about it. Sometimes, even though you have no intention, you give others the illusion that you are in love with each other, which is very troublesome.

Because the age gap will cause certain differences in concepts and values, we recommend that when you first meet a young man, it is better to act as a friend. If it's appropriate, you can naturally become a couple. If it's not suitable, it would be nice to have a male friend who exudes healthy and positive energy.

Teach you how to play with fresh meat

The initial stage means that the two people have not yet entered the couple mode. What we want to discuss are those factors that can easily lead to a qualitative change in a relationship. Understanding the sources of information that can easily lead people astray can undoubtedly enhance our ability to control the progress of a relationship. You can attack or defend, it's up to you.

1. Be sure to create a comfortable "friend magnetic field"

The so-called "friend atmosphere" is similar to that of besties, partners, and buddies, where you can play and joke around, be relaxed and happy, and have no aura of possession or control. It is a state that can make most people feel comfortable.

How to judge whether you have friendship potential? For example: Can you laugh together? Can you list some superficial common interests, popular jokes, popcorn movies, food and drinks, restaurants, etc.? Do you have one or two mutual friends who can change the topic at any time and make fun of you with a third party? Don't talk about world views, cognition, niche music, etc., as the risk of being loved will increase.

The ease and fun of the "friend field" is often more corrosive than other types of magnetic fields. As long as you are well prepared, you can ensure that if any deviation occurs, you can pull it back to the "friend field" and continue the friendly and respectful partnership.

Of course, if you want to develop further, it is also important to build and maintain a friend's "comfort zone". Having a state of parallel lines working together and allowing another line to jump around on this basis is much more reliable than intersecting and immediately moving away.

2. How to have a pleasant chat with young people?

No straight guy likes to hear you nag about your hair, your new bag, or your nails.

Suddenly a young guy asks you: "Do you play mecha wars?" "Do you like Ed

Sheeran?" "I have a friend who went to Geek Park to give a lecture. "Calm down! It's much better to confess what you don't know than to pretend to know something. The young guy will naturally share his hobbies, and you will have more topics to talk about.

3. Talk about age humorously

Never indulge him in habitually using the following words: "old", "sister", "you don't understand". Once you say it, you change your attitude faster than turning the pages of a book.

Numbers don’t lie, but a sense of humor can smooth out any discomfort caused by numbers. Most young guys don’t think about age when they start dating. At most, they have a vague impression that she is older than me or she looks about the same as me. Instead of pretending to be a girl, start by speaking frankly. For example, "Think about it, when I was in elementary school, you were just in the last year of kindergarten. Maybe I even snatched your lollipop!", or "Did you do the test questions we took in the college entrance examination? Were the test makers particularly perverted?"

Many young men don’t mind spending money on women, but they mind women’s self-righteous attitude that “men should spend money on me”.

Regarding the concept of gender equality, young men are more accepted than older men.

4. Should I hook up with a guy I met at work?

What to do if an office romance breaks up? If the breakup is peaceful and the two can still be friends happily, then there is naturally no question of changing jobs. If the breakup is very unpleasant and lovers become enemies and cannot work together at all, who should change jobs? It's simple, the one with the thinner skin should change.

There is no superior-subordinate relationship between you: as long as the company does not ban office romance, it’s okay even if it is exposed. Who can escape the fate of being gossiped about? Even if you are not in love with a young hunk, you will still be gossiped about if you are in love with the guy next door. Even if you are not in a relationship, there will be people gossiping about why you don't have a boyfriend.

You've stepped on a professional minefield: You have a superior-subordinate relationship or the company has explicit rules prohibiting office romances. Hook up or

not hooking up, it all depends on you. Some people think that it is not worth risking their job for a taste of meat; while others think that missing out on an opportunity to hook up with young men for a crappy job is a big loss.

When it comes to love, there is only "whether you want to or not" but no "should or not". The question is whether this person is worth your investment.

5. Give young guys enough face

If you need to change a light bulb or repair a computer at home, you can ask a young hunk to help. His skills may not be as good as yours, but it doesn’t matter. Just think of it as watching his muscle lines for free.

You will definitely like hanging out with him because young guys are pleasing to the eye and sunny. But then problems arise. You have been to many countries, but the young guy may have only been to Suzhou. You like to go to Workers' Stadium to play until three in the morning on weekends, but the young hunk just got to work and is not allowed to go home. When we asked each other to play together, he didn't give any useful advice at all. Don't worry, this is a typical problem when dating a younger guy. Maybe he is willing to let you make the arrangements, but don't forget to give the young hunk enough face. Whether in front of friends or not, a man's self-esteem is extremely fragile, no matter how old he is. Make two or more choices, ask for his opinion, and then make some suggestions.

6. Don’t touch these young men if you don’t want to mess up your life

I fall in love with every one I meet, and every time it’s like my first love, it’s true love every time.

He can get up early in the morning to make breakfast for you, run five kilometers to buy you your favorite dessert, and hold you for a walk when you don't want to walk. But soon you will find that the person in his arms is no longer you.

It’s better to let other women be sad about such a handsome guy. They have one thing in common: when they first meet you, they say sweet words to you or make a lot of promises. They either want to borrow money from you (or simply want to cheat you out of money) or they want to sleep with you (and only want to sleep with you).

There is another type that we need to avoid, that is the "mama's boy" type of young handsome men: they are not looking for a woman, but for a mother. (That’s fine if you’re really overly maternal.)

7. What can I wear so I won’t look like his sister?

Sports style is always a magic weapon for normal people to look younger. Refined lines help you create a "pseudo-perfect" body.

After all, he likes you, a mature woman with a mature look, not those female classmates with bangs around you. Stop buying weird clothes. Trying to look younger will only make you look ridiculous.

But there is indeed a way to make you look younger, and that is fitness! If you have a good figure, you will look good in anything. If you can still wear that dress you wore in high school, wouldn't it be easy to look like an 18-year-old?

8. Self-care is essential

In fact, young ladies need to use some powerful tricks to tie down young hunks! The disadvantage of having a boyfriend who is younger than you is that you have to work hard on maintenance. The youth and beauty of cute girls are what you never stop pursuing... Whether it's their figure or their face, do your best to hold on! In addition to being strict with your appearance, especially preventing your skin from becoming loose and wrinkled, you must also dress appropriately. Since I have high demands on myself, of course I also want to tie down that little piece of fresh meat of mine.