3 little things ruin love

Introduction: There are some things you should never do with your lover, otherwise there will be endless troubles. You think that you are deeply in love with each other and have already made everything clear about your past and present lives, so what is there to be shy about? You are totally wrong! There are a few things you should never do with your lover, otherwise the consequences will be disastrous.

Don't tell dirty jokes in front of him or her and the opposite sex

Yes, sometimes we can’t live without dirty jokes to liven up the atmosphere, whether it’s between friends or lovers. A dirty joke can bring some light laughter and help lovers flirt and boost sexual desire.

However, you must remember not to tell dirty jokes to other people of the opposite sex in front of your lover, whether face to face or on the phone. This is because all dirty jokes must involve the sensitive topic of sex, and human emotions are very sensitive and changeable.

Maybe the speaker may not mean it, but the listener may take it to heart. You may think it's just for fun, but your lover may not like it and may feel that you are flirting with someone of the opposite sex in front of him/her. Therefore, it is better not to have such misunderstanding.

Don't change your underwear in front of him.

Some women may think this statement is too pretentious. If you can go without wearing underwear in front of him, what's wrong with changing underwear? In fact, there are some subtle differences here. When you are intimate together, it is normal to be naked or do some bolder actions. The passion is burning and both of you have already immersed in a semi-awake and semi-hazy moment of joy. And if you think you can be totally blunt with him because of this, you would be very wrong.

If he often sees you walking around naked, without any shame or guilt, your mystery and beauty in his mind will disappear completely. Not only will your intimacy not increase, but it will become increasingly sparse. Especially during your menstrual period, be sure not to let him see your underwear, as that will give him an unclean impression and reduce his desire and expectations for you.

Don't praise other men in front of him.

Praise is a virtue. Especially when women are together, they will inevitably compare whose husband is more handsome, whose husband makes more money, whose husband knows how to love his wife better, etc.

At this time, praising the other man for being more considerate and capable is polite to some extent. However, if you often praise other men for being capable and charming in front of your boyfriend, it will be a great shame for him.

You know, a man's self-esteem is sometimes very fragile, and it can't even withstand an envious look. If you compliment someone else's husband and then add, "Your husband is much more useful than my man!" it's like you're stripping your man naked and trampling on him in front of the whole world!