Four common results after an affair: bitter or sweet

In the eyes of many people, extramarital affairs are considered a shameful thing. In fact, even in modern society where customs are open, it is still difficult for anyone to accept the idea of ​​having an affair openly. So, what are the temptations of cheating between men and women? What are the consequences of cheating? Let's take a look together!

The consequences of cheating

Nowadays, when cheating by men has become a fashion, many women advocate cheating as revenge for cheating. Their reasoning is that New China advocates gender equality and women should also enjoy "half the sky" treatment when it comes to cheating. Guided by this concept, some women start a cheating competition with their husbands, feeling at a disadvantage if they cheat once less, but in the end they are the ones who get hurt. There is a difference in the outcomes of a woman cheating and a man cheating. After a man cheats, either the couple will go their separate ways, or he will have a change of heart or be pulled back home by his wife. However, a woman cheating will result in four adverse consequences.

1. Loss of marriage

This consequence is determined by the differences in the purpose of cheating between men and women and their attitudes towards cheating. Men cheat mostly for sexual reasons and generally do not want to destroy the stability of their marriage and family. What they pursue is the effect of "the red flag flying at home and the red flag flying outside". Although men indulge themselves, they do not allow other men to touch their women. When they find out that their wives are cheating, they usually choose to divorce. Women cheat mostly for love. They will only cheat when they are extremely disappointed in their husbands or when their families encounter major changes and need to find new support. Since a woman will devote all her love to a man once she falls in love with him, the possibility of her returning to her family is very small. Therefore, when a woman is about to cheat, she should fully anticipate the possible harm to the marriage.

2. Sharing the same bed but having different dreams

This result usually occurs in families where both spouses engage in infidelity. Men not only have a natural hunting nature, but also have a strong desire to conquer and possess women. Some men usually regard extramarital affairs as a supplement to the relationship between husband and wife, and regard having a mistress as a symbol of fashion and social status, but they also hope to maintain a stable marriage and family harmony so as not to affect their career or career. Many men usually play a double-faced approach when their wives discover their cheating. They will neither correct their cheating mistakes nor forcibly stop their wives' retaliatory cheating. Once they discover that their wives are cheating in revenge, they will lose the last bit of shame they have. Although they will continue to live with their wives, the marriage is often reduced to an empty shell.

3. Getting dumped because you are tired of playing

Men all like young and beautiful women, and those who seduce married women are usually playboys. This kind of man is not loyal in love and only wants to play with women. He will not truly love a married woman. He only pursues one-night stands or short-term excitement, and will throw her away without hesitation when he gets tired of her. If a woman tries to maintain a relationship through threats, she may be killed. There are many such cases. This type of man goes against the purpose of women cheating and is extremely harmful to infatuated women. Married women should remain highly vigilant. When a woman finds out that her cheating partner is a philandering man, she should not fall too deeply in love with him, let alone entrust her life to him, so as to avoid emotional harm.

4. Retaliation

Married women are at a disadvantage compared to unmarried women, and the objects of their infidelity are mostly married men who are much older than themselves. There are two main characteristics of this type of old man's cheating: First, he usually goes out to look for prey when his wife becomes indifferent to him due to menopause and can no longer satisfy him sexually. What he needs to find is just a sexual partner, not true love. Second, the old man's every move after retirement is under the control of his wife, and extramarital affairs are easily exposed. In addition, menopausal women are suspicious and have strange personalities. They generally will not punish their cheating partners, but will put all the blame on the "mistress". Fighting with all their might is a common means of revenge. Therefore, married women who are unfaithful should stay away from such older men to avoid causing themselves physical and mental harm.

The unfairness of the world lies in the fact that married men are much more tolerant than married women. Men's cheating is often interpreted as relieving work pressure, playing around, officialdom's unspoken rules and desire for conquest, and cheating seems to be a last resort. If a woman cheats, she will be labeled as morally corrupt, lewd, etc. Marriage life cannot be smooth sailing. A couple can live in harmony for a lifetime, or they can live in constant quarrels. Therefore, no matter what the reason is for a woman to cheat, she should face the serious consequences that may result. The author's purpose in this short article is not to excuse those philandering men, but to remind female friends to cherish themselves.

Temptation of a secret love affair between a man and a woman

Before a man and a woman have an affair, there are bound to be many ambiguous seductions. This extremely provocative way of seduction is undoubtedly the best remedy for those who create one-night stands. Yangguang takes an in-depth inventory here to see if you have said the following words in a specific environment, and tried every means to create opportunities to be alone, and then you developed a deep relationship, from hugging and kissing to affectionate caressing, and finally you couldn't resist the temptation of ambiguous emotions and had a one-night stand.

First: Phone seduction

The woman called the man and said in a pretentious tone: "Do you have anything to do tonight?" The man answered generously and expectantly: "Why, do you want to ask me for something? As long as you ask me, I will be available at any time. If someone else asks me, then I have something to do."

The subtext of this sentence is: (very typical of putting beauty before friendship.) If a man approaches, you will definitely find a way to refuse. Beautiful women, who come to your doorstep, must have good things to say about them, and it's easy to fall for them.

Second: SMS harassment

The man sent a message to the woman with an ambiguous tone: Oh, so bored, is your husband at home? How about I ask you out dancing? The woman pretended to be reserved: Hate it, what does your boredom have to do with my husband? Why are you asking him? She didn't even mention that her husband was at home, and she answered questions irrelevantly and talked about irrelevant things, deliberately changing the subject.

The subtext of this sentence is: What do you want to do if she is not here? It implies that the other party should come to find her.

Third: Dining Table Ambiguity

The man and woman ate together alone and chatted while they ate. The woman had a shy expression, her eyes were evasive, and she would occasionally glance at the other person. The man looked into the woman's eyes with a deep look in his eyes: "Your eating movements are so beautiful, I like them, I want to watch you eat like this forever"

The subtext of this sentence is: After dinner, let’s continue to develop.

Fourth: Late-night Farewell

At ten o'clock in the middle of the night, the man sent the woman to the big room in front of her house. When he was about to say goodbye, he reluctantly put his arm around the woman's waist and said, "What does your house look like? I haven't been there yet. Can you please let me sit up there for a while?"

The subtext of this sentence is: Once you go in, you don’t just sit there for a while…

Fifth: Internet temptation

After the first video call, he exaggerated how beautiful the girl was and said that she looked like his friend. He then sent her ambiguous expressions and roses. After chatting about all sorts of things, he asked for her phone number: "Can we meet? I want to see you so much. I can't wait any longer."

The subtext of this sentence is: Hey, after we meet, let me see how I'm going to deal with you.

6. Get drunk at the bar

In the bar, a woman was seen sitting alone in a corner in a daze. A man walked up to her and said in a gentlemanly manner: "Miss, you are so beautiful. Are you alone? Could you please let me sit down for a while? Can you tell me if there is anything that makes you unhappy?" Most of the women who come to the bar are either lonely young women or resentful women who have just been abandoned by their boyfriends. When responding to greetings from the opposite sex, one generally adopts an attitude of neither answering nor rejecting.

The subtext of this sentence is: After you sit down, watch how this handsome guy gets you drunk, and then well, you understand it without me saying it.

Seventh: Office Flirting

A man and a woman were working in the same office. The man said to the woman, "It's getting late. Come to my house. I'll treat you to a meal. We can finish the unfinished tasks here together after dinner." The woman said, "That's inconvenient, we're just a man and a woman. I'm not a casual person." The man said, "We've been working together for so long. Don't you know me?" The woman immediately smiled and replied: "Oh, I see. Okay then, I promise to only talk about business."

The subtext of this sentence is: Even if you know each other very well, what good can come from being alone in a room in the middle of the night with a single man and a single woman? After you finish your business, don't even think about going home and continuing to do other things between men and women.

8. Dance Hall Temptation

A man and a woman, who had never met each other before, were dancing together. The man was gentle and considerate, while the woman was coquettish and charming. The man whispered in the girl's ear, and occasionally touched her sensitive areas intentionally or unintentionally, making her feel resentful and the girl confused and excited. Man: "Stop dancing, let's go get a room and rest?" Woman: "No, I'm not that kind of person" Man: "I don't mean anything else, I know you're not that kind of person, I just saw that you were tired, and wanted you to rest for a while..."

The subtext of this sentence is: Even if you are not that kind of person, as long as you are willing to check into a room and rest, it does not mean you are resting alone, then you become that kind of person.