How can newlyweds have a sex life that will make them happier

The wedding night is so exciting, but the newlyweds should also know more about sex life, don't be too nervous, eliminate some obstacles in their hearts in time, and don't pursue perfection too much. Only in a relaxed atmosphere and a good mentality can they be happier.

1. Eliminate psychological barriers

Due to the influence of traditional concepts and other factors, even couples who have been in love for a long time will have a certain degree of shyness when having sex for the first time, and this shyness is more serious in women than in men. The husband should take the initiative to break this shy atmosphere through passionate words and caresses, and eliminate the psychological barriers before sex.

2. Relax and don’t be nervous

Newly-weds' first sexual intercourse cannot be taught by themselves due to their lack of sexual knowledge and experience, and they are easily psychologically nervous. If the intercourse is not smooth, or there is bleeding and pain due to rupture of the hymen, this sense of tension will be further intensified. At this time, try to eliminate emotional interference and learn to relax yourself, which is very important for the success of first-time sexual intercourse and improving sexual pleasure. In addition, it is even more important for the husband to be gentle, considerate and caring, and avoid being rude in order to eliminate the tension of his newlywed wife.

3. Don’t pursue perfection too much

If the first sexual intercourse of a newlywed couple goes smoothly, harmoniously and joyfully, they will feel satisfied and taste the happiness and sweetness of their marriage. If things don't go well or are difficult to achieve, some people will feel disappointed. If this happens repeatedly, it will affect or even shake the emotional foundation of a happy marriage.

4. Newlyweds should sum up their experience

At this time, newlyweds should be reminded that a harmonious and satisfying sex life is influenced by many physiological and psychological factors and cannot be achieved solely by subjective wishes. It is common for the first sexual intercourse on the wedding night to be unsuccessful. It usually takes 3 to 4 weeks for the newlyweds to achieve satisfactory sexual intercourse.