​How to repair a broken marriage_How to restore a broken relationship between husband and wife

Marriage in modern times can be said to be a hot topic. We see a lot of things about marriage every day. If everything is good, everyone is happy, but bad things often happen. The divorce rate in modern society is getting more and more serious, so we need to learn to maintain the marriage relationship. If we encounter a broken marriage, how can we repair it?

1. How to save a broken marriage

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When our marriage is in crisis, first of all, no matter what the reason, we should not cry or complain. This will only aggravate the deterioration of your relationship and undermine the other party's determination to make a decision.

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The crisis of marriage cannot be caused by one side. Think about his (her) determination to stay with you. Why would he (she) give up the family that he (she) has worked hard with you for so many years and built up now?

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If you can still analyze these calmly, then that's great, at least you have changed. It makes sense to think twice before you act. If you want a certain result, you should pay the equivalent of patience. Now you need to think about what you have done in the process of fulfilling your marriage or how much you have changed before marriage.

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We enter into marriage and are willing to fulfill the promise of staying together for life because we are moved by the person in front of us and because of love. But have we changed too much after marriage, causing the other party's misunderstanding and no longer feeling sorry for us? If you also find that this is the reason for the change in your marriage, should you reflect on it and face your own mistakes?

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When you have figured out the reasons for the change in your marriage, you need to have a good talk with your partner. I believe no one is willing to give up their home and start over to have another relationship, unless he really doesn't love you or his morals have fallen. In this case, I still advise you to let go.

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The content of the conversation should be more about the details of getting along with each other. For example, you can be frank and open your heart to talk about each other's understanding and yearning for love and family. You can also clearly point out your dissatisfaction and the concessions that should be made. In fact, that is not called concession. Everything is for the purpose of being together well, right?

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Another crucial point is that children should not be the reason for your marriage to continue. Even if it can be, it is only temporary. It is not good for the growth environment of children and is harmful to children.

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If you are still willing to live a good life with each other and face the ups and downs together, I hope that in addition to getting along with each other, you can communicate more, understand more, be more careful, be less jealous and suspicious, and don't have too much ambition and hope for wealth. After all, a simple, safe and loving life is the best.

2. Specific methods

1. Don’t complain, grumble, or harbor too much negative energy.

Two people are together because they are happy, cheerful and comfortable with each other. This series of special feelings comes from two people who belong only to each other.

When faced with pressure from work and life and having no place to release it, you choose to vent all your emotions on the other person, thinking that the other person is your closest person and is obligated to accept your bad emotions.

Of course, the first and second time, the other party will definitely try their best to understand and comfort you, but after a long time, the other party will get tired. No one likes bad things, and no one wants to face a person who is in a bad mood all day long.

So, stop your endless complaints, become sunny and positive, relieve your stress through music or exercise, and lay a solid foundation for your relationship.

2. Learn to listen, be tolerant and understanding.

It is precisely because the form of marriage makes you the closest lovers, so more often than not you are the one who should understand each other's feelings the most.

Let go of your busyness. Put down your work, put down your parties, put down your game consoles and TV series.

Listen carefully to the other person's feelings, enhance the emotional communication and emotional dependence between you, and when facing conflicts, disputes and disagreements, you should think about the problem from the other person's perspective, be tolerant and understanding of the other person, because you are the other person's only lover.

3. Create time to spend together and relive the sweet past.

It is inevitable that two people will lack passion and get bored after being together for a long time. When the marriage is in crisis and facing more external temptations, you must be vigilant to create new freshness for your marriage and love or recall the initial sweetness. For example, you can put aside your work and life and have a short and happy second honeymoon.

Rediscover the feeling of being in love, add new spice to your boring marriage, and make your love warmer. This is the correct way to save a marriage in crisis, rather than solving the problem by making a scene and accusing the other person of not being good enough.

It takes a lot of energy and effort to save a marriage in crisis, including forbearance of all bad emotions. I understand that this is very painful, but if you use the right methods to reap a happy marriage, the happiness that comes will make you feel that it is all worth it.