The difference between mature and immature people

There is always a stage when people are immature. The manifestation of immaturity is childishness. They will appear out of place in the way they do things. Their own psychological activities will also be affected. They will be jealous of others and cannot control their emotions towards others. Mature people are more stable and will be more responsible for themselves and others in terms of their work style. They will do things that make people feel comfortable. This is the difference between the two.

The first sign of immaturity: demanding immediate rewards

The second characteristic of an immature person: lack of self-discipline.

(1) Unwilling to change oneself.

(2) Willing to talk about others behind their backs,

(3) Negativity, complaining

The third characteristic of an immature person: being often controlled by emotions. Whether a person is successful or not depends on five factors:

1) Learn to control your emotions;

2) Good health;

3) Good interpersonal relationships;

4) Time management;

5) Financial management

The fourth characteristic of immaturity: unwillingness to learn, self-righteousness, and lack of a zero-based mindset.

The fifth characteristic of an immature person: he does things based on what others say, not his beliefs.

Most importantly, control your emotions. Don't let your emotions become your master, don't let yourself become a slave to your emotions

Methods/Steps

1. Be responsible for yourself and don’t easily kill the possibility of getting better

The greatest responsibility each of us should bear is to ourselves.

A truly mature person will not allow himself to live an absurd life, be muddle-headed, or give up on himself, because all of these are meaningless to his life. To be more precise, they are eroding his freedom and stifling his future choices.

Why should a person work hard? To surpass someone else or to enrich the plot when bragging? Neither. A person's efforts are ultimately for himself, so that he can always have room to maneuver in the uncertain ocean, and so that he can always retain the right to say no in his future journey.

Not being carried away by the immediate enjoyment, always reminding yourself not to be the frog in the warm water, and using temporary constraints in exchange for greater freedom and hope in the future are the most beautiful qualities that a rational person should possess.

Where does lack of self-discipline manifest itself?

Unwilling to change oneself:

You have to change the way you think and behave, and you have to change your bad habits. In fact, there is not much difference in ability between people. The difference lies in the way of thinking. When something happens, if you ask the successful and the unsuccessful people, their answers will be different, even contradictory. Our lack of success today is because our way of thinking is unsuccessful.

A good formula is: when you plant a seed of thought, you will reap actions; when you plant actions, you will reap habits; when you plant habits, you will reap personality; and when you plant personality, it will determine your destiny.

But if you plant a seed of failure, you will definitely get failure. If you plant a seed of success, then you will definitely succeed.

You have to believe that if someone succeeds in this project, you will definitely succeed. Only continuous action can form a habit, and a habit will be formed after being repeated for 21 days. Then keep doing it and it will form your personality.

Many people have many bad habits, such as watching TV, playing mahjong, drinking, and hanging out in dance halls. They also know that such habits are bad, but why are they unwilling to change? Because many people would rather endure those bad lifestyles than change the pain it brings to them, so they are unwilling to change.

Willing to talk about others behind their backs:

If you like to talk about others in life, one day it will get back to you. There is an old Chinese saying that goes, "Those who talk about other people's right and wrong are definitely bad people themselves."

Negative, complaining:

Who do you like in your life? Those who are gloomy and complain about this and that all the time, or do you like those who are happy and tolerant all the time? If you are one of those complaining, negative people in your life, you must change the flaws in your character. If you don't change, it will be difficult for you to adapt to this society and it will be difficult for you to cooperate with others.