The psychology of men beating women

In this society where men and women are equal, incidents of men beating women are much less common than before, but they still exist. First of all, beating people is a very violent behavior and is not rational. It is normal for a couple to quarrel. It will be over if they give in to each other. There is no need to hit each other. Even if they have done something wrong, they can communicate with each other. No one is perfect. Who will never make mistakes?

When a man beats a woman, have you ever thought about how the person you beat treats you? Your food, clothing, and daily life are all done by women. Women give birth to your children, and take care of the elderly. Even if they have no credit, they have worked hard. We must learn to be humble to women. Here is an introduction to the psychology of men who favor women.

The first type is influenced by the family's emphasis on male dominance.

Most of these people grew up in large families, and because they were boys, they received different treatments from a young age, and they did not take women seriously from the bottom of their hearts. He believes that any woman who is disobedient must be beaten into submission, and of course the woman must be his wife.

The second type is to prove that you are a man.

Most of these people look effeminate, but what they hate most is being called women. If someone else says it, it's okay, but if it's his own wife who says it unintentionally after marriage, it will awaken the memory of others' ridicule of him in his heart. He thinks that others can say, "You are my wife and I treat you so well, but you say that too," so he will suddenly explode and beat his wife.

The third type is perverted because of the selfishness of love.

This type of people often care very much about their wife's chastity and think that love is perfect. So when he found out that his wife was not a virgin after getting married, he was reluctant to give up. He would always think of his wife being with other men in his mind, and he would feel ashamed all the time. Then domestic violence begins, and most of the time it involves domestic sexual abuse to vent one's dissatisfaction.

The fourth type is extreme inferiority complex.

This type of man is often not good-looking, but he finds a beautiful wife, which is the kind of person who is like a flower stuck in cow dung. Because he suspects every day that his wife is having an affair, he gets nervous at the slightest sign of trouble. Until later he tried to use violence to subdue the woman, using sarcastic and mocking words, such as: You are much uglier now than before. No one will want you if you seduce others again, and so on to conquer women.

The fifth type is due to problems with the wife.

This type of men beating women has a lot to do with the women themselves. Some are because women are too lazy and too dependent on men. Some are due to their own misconduct, such as online dating, having an affair, and being discovered by men. Others are because the woman is disrespectful, unreasonable to her parents-in-law, etc., and these reasons make the man unable to bear it and beat the woman. However, this type of beating usually occurs very rarely and only under special circumstances, before the man has developed character or psychological biases.

The sixth type is the psychological and personality disorder type.

This type of man is the doctor in the TV series "Don't Talk to Strangers". There are many reasons for his psychopathy. But this type of man gives people the impression of being gentle and elegant, and very cultured. As the saying goes, he says one thing in front of people and another behind their backs. He has a typical two-faced personality. This type of person is also the most terrifying, because it is difficult to find them if they don’t live together, and their excuse is that they love each other too much. This kind of people cannot change even if they want to, because their character is a split personality that they cannot and will not control.

The above introduces some wrong ideas that men have when it comes to men being bigger than women. I hope men who behave like this can reflect on themselves. If a man can beat you again and again, you should look for the reasons within yourself. Don't just give in to them blindly, which will make them become more and more presumptuous. In the family, do your job well. If the man still beats you or bullies you, you should argue with him. Don't be cowardly all the time, as this will breed more intense violence.