4 sounds that make men soft

If sex is compared to a symphony, then vision, touch, hearing and smell play the roles of string, woodwind, brass and percussion instruments respectively. However, most people only pay attention to the first two items, but ignore the importance of hearing and smell, so the music they play naturally seems a bit monotonous. As "additives" to sex, hearing and smell are particularly important. There are several types of sounds that can impress men and make them unforgettable.

Ambiguous sexual language

Verbal communication is an important form of sexual communication. When people speak, the vibrations in their voices express emotions and can stimulate our imagination. Language consists not only of words, but also of timbre, pitch and volume. Using words to convey sexual demands to others or to respond to their sexual demands can elevate general emotional exchanges to rational understanding.

Human love is different from sexual love in the animal world. Its important basis is emotional communication through language communication. Due to the influence of cultural level and concepts, the use of language in sexual communication often has ambiguous characteristics.

Aphrodisiac moaning

When sexual excitement and climax occur, the moans of men and women can also be quite stimulating, especially for men. A 28-year-old man said: "When I have sex with my wife, I hear her screams. The more she screams, the more excited I get, because her screams make me feel that I have done something to make her feel happy."

Another 30-year-old man confessed: "My wife's low moans during orgasm are very tempting and provocative." It can be said that the man's verbal communication during foreplay is crucial to the woman's sexual excitement, and during intimacy, the woman's voice has an aphrodisiac effect on the man's sexual excitement.

The moans made by women during sex are different, but the language they moan in are similar, such as "faster", "I can't stand it anymore", "Don't stop!", etc. They can be blurted out naturally without any learning, and can be called the common language of women in the world.

Increased breathing rate

The reason why women moan during sexual excitement is that their breathing and heart rates significantly speed up, their central nervous system becomes excited, which leads to increased blood pressure and faster aerobic metabolism. At this moment, the breathing rate can reach 40 times/minute, the heart rate increases to 120 times/minute, and some can reach 150 times/minute-160 times/minute. Due to the decrease in oxygen content in the blood, women will fall into a state of mild hypoxia, and their accelerated breathing disorder will naturally cause them to emit the muffled sounds unique to orgasm.

At the same time, due to the increase of "exciting substances" in women's brains (people's understanding of it is still very limited), the brain's inhibition will be lifted, causing women to make sounds that they can't even imagine (called "moaning" in sexology).

Most men like women's moans.

Many men and women would be delighted by women's moans, and use the volume of the sound as a criterion for judging the degree of women's sexual excitement. There are very few men who do not like women's moans.

In real life, there are some women who are severely sexually repressed or have more orthodox sexual concepts. They will consciously control their sexual feelings and make no sound during sex. However, it is difficult for these women to achieve true orgasm during sex.

Of course, when men and women are together, voice can also act as a catalyst and aphrodisiac. When a woman is in love, her voice will become soft and beautiful. Most women in love have charming voices. The feeling and tone when they talk to their lovers are obviously different from usual, as if honey is added, which makes men melt and get excited. At this time, no matter how ugly a woman is, she gives the best feeling to men. If women's voices can return to their natural and gentle state, they will become an invisible weapon that can penetrate men.

1. Distracted sound

The most representative of this kind of voice is the voice of Zhou Xuan, the golden voice of old Shanghai, and the voice of an old radio station from a long time ago. It is gentle, soft, and sweet, making men addicted. But now women are in charge, have the same rights as men, have louder voices and greater strength, and are no longer concerned with impressing men with their voices. The independent evolution of women will inevitably lead to the loss of this voice.

2. Sweet voice

In the early 1980s, people in mainland China would remember the name of a woman - Teresa Teng. Her sweet and fresh voice would calm the restless and confused hearts of men, and even make them indulge in it and forget everything.

3. Magnetic sound

This voice is represented by Tsai Chin. This kind of voice interprets the soft and gentle taste of women, just like a glass of aged wine. Listening to Tsai Chin's songs is suitable on rainy days, it is a particularly beautiful scene. This kind of voice allows men to understand women more thoroughly.

4. Sexy voice

Sexy voice is a rather vague concept, but there is one word that cannot be missing from this voice: soft. Women usually have shrill voices, so softness is the key to sexiness.

Many women may not make the above sounds, but this is not important. The important thing is to avoid sounds that men hate: one is sharp. Second, the tone is too capable and authoritative.