How to increase your sexual desire and make you no longer cold

Many women will experience sexual apathy after giving birth, which will also affect the relationship between husband and wife. It is necessary to adjust it in time. To improve your sexual desire, you can start by adjusting your mentality, and secondly, you must eliminate inferiority complex, and the husband must also cooperate well.

1. Adjust your mindset. After giving birth, you should straighten out two relationships psychologically and in action. The child, the new family member, is the mother's treasure, and the husband is your closest person, with whom you should grow old together and spend your life. Therefore, we need to care and protect both our heart and our liver. As a wife, you should unconditionally satisfy your husband's sexual demands, overcome disgust, irritability, and rebelliousness; understand your husband's sexual needs; give your husband more love during sex, and use your actions to convey more happiness to your sweetheart.

2. Eliminate inferiority complex . After giving birth, the change in body shape is a fact that many women cannot accept. They always think that their husbands may not like their bodies as much as before, and their inner inferiority complex leads to a greatly reduced sexual desire. In fact, most men are usually not as picky as imagined. As long as you are confident in your sex life, you will be the most beautiful. You must eliminate inferiority complex from your heart and accept and recognize yourself.

3. Use aphrodisiac tools. When having sex after childbirth, women may become sexually apathetic due to vaginal dryness and pain. At this time, they can cleverly use aphrodisiac tools that help with sex. For example, you can apply lubricant during sexual intercourse to reduce vaginal dryness; at the same time, the husband should show more care and caress to his wife, with gentle movements, and slowly the wife will adapt.

4. Massage sensitive areas to increase sexual desire. The husband helps his wife massage sensitive areas and sensitive points, such as ears, neck, inner thighs, armpits, breasts, nipples, etc., with slow and gentle movements, pressing with the fingertips to let the woman experience a sense of happiness and comfort. Massaging once a day can help postpartum women slowly restore their sexual desire.