What to do when a couple quarrels and goes into a cold war? You need to understand how to get along with others

It is common for couples to quarrel, and two people should be tactful when quarreling. The most taboo is the cold war after the quarrel. If a cold war occurs, it must be dealt with in a timely manner. One party must give in first. Both husband and wife should not be too stubborn and must solve the problem in a timely manner.

1. The Cold War must be dealt with promptly

The cold war caused by a quarrel must be dealt with in time. If you drag it on, it will easily affect your future life. After a long time, the cold war will develop into an inertial cold war. If the other party does not bow his head or accommodate you, will the cold war continue like this? When one party is completely disappointed with the other party, the inertial cold war will develop into cold violence, and it will be very difficult to deal with it at that time.

2. One of the parties must humble themselves and accommodate

Marriage, after all, is about two people living together after they fall in love with each other. If neither party is willing to humble themselves and accommodate the other, then what is the point of living together? So if there is a quarrel and a cold war, it cannot always be that one party has to give in. It must be taken turns, no matter whether they are right or wrong. After all, after giving in, both people will return to rationality and naturally know who is right and who is wrong.

3. When the other party accommodates you, you must give them a way out

Not everyone is willing to lower themselves to accommodate you during a cold war. If the other party accommodates you, you must give the other party a way out. You cannot be self-righteous and think that you are very important. You don’t give the other party a way out and insist on making a winner and a loser. But you have to know that the other party can also choose to continue the cold war, right? Therefore, if the other party accommodates you, your attitude must also be that of wanting to reconcile, so that everyone can be happy.

4. Don’t use the Cold War as a bargaining chip to threaten the other side

Many men are the initiators of the Cold War. Some of them are because they were relatively independent when they were young and were educated independently at home. Therefore, most men are accustomed to using the Cold War to force their wives to compromise. After the wives compromise, they reconcile. When they are not satisfied and they quarrel again, they use the Cold War again to achieve their goals. So men should be careful and not use the cold war as a bargaining chip to threaten the other party. The same goes for women.

5. We need to think about solving the problem. The Cold War is not the solution.

When encountering problems or disputes, you must find the cause of the problem or dispute. It is ineffective to go into a cold war without finding the cause. The cold war cannot replace the process of solving the problem, and the cold war will miss the best time to solve the problem. When you try to solve the problem after the cold war, it may be too late. Therefore, the Cold War is not the way to solve the problem. If you find the root cause and solve the problem, maybe you won’t have a Cold War at all.