How is a person's aura cultivated

The aura formed by a person is related to many factors, which is closely related to the individual's personal charm, one's own education level, family education, and self-cultivation. If you want to make your own aura more sufficient, you must first strengthen your cultural cultivation and improve your personal temperament. A person's aura can be trained using certain methods, and you should understand some techniques in this regard.

1. Like others first

The blind date partners in the study had never met each other, and they did not meet during the blind date, but only communicated on the phone. The researchers will assess the man and woman's progress through their conversations. But among them, there are some boys who will receive a photo of their blind date before the phone blind date - but the photo is not of the blind date, but a photo of a super beautiful woman.

So when talking on the phone, boys will think they are on a blind date with a "goddess", and there is no doubt that their attitude will be very good.

But this is not the most important thing. What the researchers want to know is the performance of the girl on the other end of the phone. As a result, these girls who were mistakenly regarded as "goddesses" also behaved like goddesses. Very friendly, talkative and likeable. Because the boys opposite them showed their affection for them, they also showed the same affection. So from a boy's perspective, the important way to make a girl like him is to show your affection for her first. Because good feelings are passed on to each other. When I was doing consulting before, sometimes I really disliked a client, and I would find that in the end he didn’t like me either. However, after I got promoted, when I faced the same type of client, I told myself to "be more mature" and really try to find his strengths so that I could like him. Then I found that he really liked me too.

Because when we like someone, we can't help but praise the other person, smile often, and make the other person feel happy, and the other person will give you the same feedback.

If you observe people who are particularly likable, they are often very good at establishing connections with you, and you will feel that they are very similar to you.

For example, they may mention that they are from the same hometown as you, or have the same zodiac sign as you, or have the same hobbies, etc. In short, when you get along with them, you feel that they are the same kind of people as you, and your favorability towards them is doubled. Therefore, in addition to actively showing favor to others, another way to win favor is to establish a connection between yourself, the person you are communicating with, and positive events.

This approach will prevent you from being disliked, but it will also make it almost impossible to be liked. Because getting along with others requires give and take. The antonym of "like" is not "dislike" but "ignore". If you have no intersection with anyone, the end result is to be "ignored".