How can we educate our children well?

During the pregnancy process, parents hope that the baby is healthy, and giving birth to a healthy baby smoothly is the most important thing. After the baby is born, parents hope that the baby is very smart, so they will teach their children a variety of knowledge from an early age. In addition, young parents will also learn many methods of educating children. In general, educating children is a complex subject. To educate children well, the following principles must be kept in mind.

How can we educate our children well?

First of all, you should think about what kind of personality you want your child to have. Most people, based on their awareness of their own shortcomings, hope that their children will not have the same bad habits as their parents. For example, if a person does not pay much attention to hygiene, of course they hope that their children will learn to love cleanliness. Then, when the child is very unhygienic, they will beat and scold him, and educate him. In fact, such an approach is unlikely to correct the child's behavior. If you want your child to change fundamentally, you must first learn to change yourself and pay attention to your own words and deeds in order to fundamentally influence your child.

Secondly, a good environment is the key to a child's growth. Don't let your child lose the joy of his childhood. Many parents will assign a lot of tasks to their children when they are very young, such as learning some interest classes, learning to draw, learning to dance, etc. From the perspective of the child, these are all required by the parents to learn. In fact, this will cause the child's interests and hobbies to gradually disappear, and it will be impossible to discover the child's true hobbies. When the child grows up, it will go against the trend. It is a common phenomenon in China to educate children too early, but I still hope to reduce the pressure on the child as much as possible.

There is no order without rules when it comes to character. The old saying has some truth to it. Children cannot be left undisciplined. Nowadays, many children are doted on by their parents and loved and cared for by their elders. This will cultivate bad tempers in children, and when they enter the society, they will be incompatible with most people. To cultivate a child, you must start by letting her develop good habits. You cannot educate her too much and criticize her harshly regardless of whether the matter is serious or not. This will make her character cowardly and timid, and she will not dare to do or think anything. You should relax your child's behavior moderately and grasp the degree.

In terms of ability training, that is, we need to educate children to have hands-on skills. We cannot ask them to do everything. We need to train them to try to let them touch anything that is not dangerous. Children are naturally curious about nature. We need to use this method to train their thinking ability and improve their hands-on skills. We need to let children learn to be independent. Let them do their own things by themselves, with assistance from the side. Sometimes, let them sleep alone to reduce their over-dependence on their parents.

In terms of communication, during the growth of children, some people are willing to contact, while others are avoided. This is actually the lack of parents. Children should learn to share things with others, communicate with others, and learn some good aspects of others in their childhood. Parents should often be with their children and talk to them more. Now that the Internet is so developed, they can communicate through the Internet even if they are away from home. This can increase the intimacy between children and themselves, and let them find out how much their parents care about them.

There are many people who love their children very much, but I don’t know why there are still so many gaps. From the above description, this is caused by the character developed in the children’s childhood. We must put aside the appearance of parents and sometimes communicate with children like students or friends. I believe that children will repay us well.