How to view the view that suffering losses when getting along with others is a blessing

Many parents tell their children that suffering losses is a blessing when educating them. In fact, parents should still have a more correct attitude towards their children's education, because sometimes children are too honest and will suffer losses outside. Moreover, the more honest people are, the more they will be bullied by others, and even those who bully them will think that bullying them is a natural thing. So how do you view the view that suffering losses is a blessing when getting along with others?

"损" means loss.

From an epistemological perspective, if we suffer losses when getting along with others, we will naturally learn lessons, gradually learn to understand each other, promote communication, and increase our talents. So it is not always a bad thing to suffer losses. As long as you have good relationships and open your heart to each other, it will definitely be beneficial.

From the perspective of development theory, personal development must have life ideals. Our Chinese nation has the traditional virtues of diligence, wisdom, respect for the elderly and love for the young. When you get along with others, if you suffer a loss, you are giving your own opportunities and wealth to others. Maybe because of your humility, others have gained opportunities in life, and we ourselves have also achieved the perfection of helping others. In this way, this "loss" is meaningful.

What the elderly call "suffering a loss" is actually a surrender of vested interests. It does not mean that we have to give in or suffer losses on some issues of principle. In general, there is nothing wrong in giving more benefits to others. After a long time, everyone knows the situation. Don't ask for anything in return from others, just ask for peace of mind. In this way, of course you may encounter villains who take advantage of you, but as long as you can help others often and feel happy, that's enough. No need to think too much.

That depends on who you suffer the loss from. Suffering the loss from a good person is a blessing, and he will reward you; suffering the loss from a bad person is a disaster, and he will become more and more aggressive! It is better to suffer small losses than big losses! If you suffer a loss, you should suffer it in the open; if you suffer it in secret, it will be a waste! I am the same person as you, and I live a very tiring life. Of course, we have also won the trust of others, which may be a wealth; but we have lost too many opportunities to develop ourselves!