How do boys chat with girls

Many people are embarrassed when making friends and are very likely to offend people because they don’t know how to communicate and chat. Communication is very important for people of different ages and in different relationships. If you can’t communicate and interact with others, it will naturally affect your position in life and it will even be difficult to make a female friend. So here are some chat skills for boys so that you can learn how to strike up a conversation correctly.

Rule 1: Don’t ask questions just for the sake of asking.

Only ask questions that are "useful" for your approach. This "usefulness" mainly refers to helping you judge the opportunities and possibilities of getting along with her at the moment. For example, "At which stop do you want to get off?" "Have you finished your business?" "Are you tired from shopping?" "What do you think of this restaurant?"... These types of questions can immediately influence your suggestions and actions for her next step. Just a reminder that asking any questions does not help build comfort. So, questions like "What do you do?", "Where are you from?", "What do you like to do?", "Which school do you go to?" are just a bunch of nonsense in the early stages of a chat-up.

In fact, this is also linked to honesty. If I were honest, when I walked over to chat with her, it had nothing to do with where she was from, what job she did, or what major she studied. I just thought she was pleasing to the eye and I only cared about the time I could spend with her at the moment. As for her hobbies and resume, those were things for the future. But as an inexperienced pick-up artist, because of nervousness and lack of topics to talk about, I always use questions to fill the awkwardness of looking at each other in bewilderment. It must be emphasized here that this is actually just a reflex without the brain, which only shows that you are a thoughtless person. Therefore, the questions should not only be few but also precise. Being practical is also a charm of a man. According to practical observations, MM's reaction to this is still very obvious.

Rule 2: Use declarative sentences instead of interrogative sentences whenever possible

For example, approach a girl who is wandering in the lobby. "Are you waiting for someone?" is not as effective as "It seems your friend is late too." If you listen carefully, you will find that the tone of the latter is more decisive, natural, and friendly, and it also subtly hints at the status of the person approaching you. In contrast, the former's simple questioning neither reveals any information about yourself nor requires the other party to provide you with her situation, which can easily make girls nervous and resist.

Article 3: Questions that do not require the other party to answer

For example, "I want to get to know you?" and "How about we go together?" The essence of these two sentences is "I am someone who wants to get to know you" and "I am someone who wants to go with you", which is just stating your purpose to the girl. But if you remain silent after saying these two sentences, then these two sentences become pure questions, "I want to get to know you, is that okay?" "Let's go together, okay?" and the other party will have to make a choice between yes and no. At this time, out of self-protection instinct, MM is more likely to give a negative answer.

Therefore, the key skill is not to remain silent, not to be embarrassed, not to wait for the girl to speak, but to immediately jump into the second sentence of the chat. For example, "The weather is like this today" and "This place is like this"... Then, both parties have a way out.