Four big mirrors of a happy marriage

You seemed to be a close couple yesterday, getting together every day and swearing to be together forever. At that time, your boyfriend was a endless good thing in your eyes. But when they really get the certificate of marriage, the two people see each other day and night, and sparks of trivial things keep flying between them. As the saying goes, once a woman enters the marriage hall, she must keep one eye open and one eye closed. But not every woman is born with the ability to close one eye. At this time, you need to equip yourself with various mirrors in order to firmly grasp the happiness of being a wife and the happiness of love.

telescope

He makes you more and more dissatisfied. Other people's husbands make a lot of money as they please, while he works hard for a few small wages; other people have air conditioners humming on hot days, but you don't even have a broken fan at home; other women go shopping for clothes every few days, but you wear the same few clothes all year round...

At this time, you need to pick up the telescope and look forward, look forward, and look forward again. You need to open your eyes wider than usual because only by opening them wider can you see farther. You have to believe that he will be successful one day. By then, your home will have air conditioning, you will have endless money, and you can even fly to Paris, France, and shop as you please. The golden vision hangs before your eyes, don't you feel a little excited? Since looking at the plum blossoms can quench your thirst, just look at them more! Sometimes, the feeling of happiness is just like this.

Plane mirror

When you get together with a group of housewives and play mahjong, you can't help but talk about your men. Each woman described him as more capable than the other. Even though you have embellished and exaggerated your him again and again in your mind, he still cannot be compared with someone else's him. At this time, you must not look down on him in your heart. You have to believe in him, but don't easily believe what others say about him. Every woman is vain. They can match a coat worth hundreds of dollars with underwear worth a few dollars, and still exaggerate a man who does nothing into an omnipotent man. Your man may be better than any of theirs.

Similar to this is the fanning of the flames by some bored people, for example, someone tells you that he has an ambiguous relationship with a certain woman; someone else tells you that he saw him gambling with others... For these remarks, you can just laugh it off; you can pretend not to hear them; if you really can't avoid them, you have to believe what you see and hear what you hear, just like whether clothes fit you well, you have to look in front of the mirror before you draw a conclusion. So this mirror must be real and reliable and flat.

magnifier

He may only sweep the floor once a week and wash your clothes once every two weeks. A smart woman will not complain that a man does too little for her. Instead, she would enjoy the man sweeping the floor once a week and doing the laundry every two weeks. She kept recalling in her mind: how clumsy he was when he swept the floor and knocked over a chair, and how cute he was when his face was covered with foam while washing clothes. Then, she would laugh sweetly: It is so lucky to have a man who is as childlike and considerate as a child!

A smart woman will be touched by his behavior of sweeping the floor once a week and washing clothes once every two weeks. Because a smart woman knows how to magnify his busyness and tiredness in her heart. Even if he just woke up after sleeping for half a day, she would still think: He must be exhausted, otherwise why would he sleep so deeply for half a day! With such a "magnifying glass" mentality, will happiness be willing to abandon her?

periscope

He did not honestly give you every penny of his salary like other women's lovers did; you have run into him having intimate conversations with other women more than once; he even got angry at you for no reason... You must keep calm at this time. There is an essence behind a phenomenon, and two completely different phenomena may have the same essence. So, you need a periscope, calm down and see the other side.

You have to believe him first, and then look at what you see from a different perspective. He secretly keeps some of his salary, maybe he just wants to buy you a gift quietly to surprise you, and you should be thankful that he is a smart and independent person, such men are often more likely to succeed; when he talks intimately with other women, you should feel proud that you had a good vision and chose such a charming man; he got angry at you, which means he must have encountered something unpleasant at work. For such an ambitious man, what reason do you have to care about his occasional anger?

Many people, after entering the besieged city, clamor to get out. This is not the fault of the besieged city, but the fault of the people. They don't have access to such good tools as telescopes, plane mirrors, magnifying glasses, and periscopes. How can they adapt to the life in the besieged city, and how can they be happy?