After doing this, the woman only wanted a divorce

Young people nowadays get divorced easily. Some flash marriages happen in just a few days, while others even get married and divorced within a day. Why do young people nowadays take marriage so casually and treat it as a joke? Are they really immature? Or are there other reasons that lead them to make such a decision? For women, and a large number of women, they all have the urge to divorce after getting married. Why is this? Let me analyze it for you below.

Reason 1: Dissatisfaction with the current situation. Before marriage, men always use sweet words to coax women around. Men at that time obeyed women's orders. After marriage, men often turn a blind eye or a deaf ear to women in order to show their status at home. They no longer bow and scrape to women and humiliate themselves. They tend to become superior or treat you condescendingly, like a babysitter. At this time, the woman's psychology is unbalanced. Why do men become two different people before and after marriage? At this time, the woman must hate the man to the core and then think about divorce.

Reason 2: Dissatisfaction with family. The expenses after marriage are always greater than those before marriage. Those who own a house only have to pay the water and electricity bills, but those who don’t have a house have to pay the mortgage. This is a considerable amount of money every month, and women often spend less. Buying less clothes and using less cosmetics, no woman can bear it in the long run. Especially when the parents-in-law come into the picture, the women have to take care of their expenses and serve them. Which woman would be willing to do this? Although we should respect the elderly and love the young, when it comes to parents-in-law who are not your own parents, which woman can treat them as well as her own parents? After a long time, conflicts will arise and it will be difficult to resolve them. Then the woman thought about divorce again, wanting to get rid of such a life.

Reason three: Dissatisfaction with the child. It is natural to have children after getting married. Some women are afraid of having children. They don't want to have children and would rather be a DINK. Which parents-in-law would agree to this? The parents-in-law will then force a divorce, which makes the woman even more eager to divorce. Even if you have children, educating them is still a big problem. Let my parents-in-law take care of the child, I’m afraid they won’t be confident in taking care of the child. Bring it yourself, I have to go to work and don’t have time. When the child grew up and went to elementary school and middle school, I started to worry about his studies again. It doesn’t matter if the grades are good, but it’s really frustrating when the grades are bad. If you meet a few weird and naughty children who always talk back to their parents, no woman can stand it. After a long time, the woman naturally thought about divorce again.

So no matter what, various factors always make women want to divorce more and more strongly. But it will not happen overnight if women want to abandon this kind of thinking. But despite this, men must overcome it and try their best to satisfy women. Women should not be too petty and should face all challenges with an open mind. As long as these hurdles are overcome, why worry about a family of three not being happy?