How to fight for child custody when a man and a woman divorce

The divorce rate between men and women is getting higher and higher nowadays, but we all know that divorce is very harmful to children. The issue of child custody is also a right that many men and women fight for when they divorce. So when men and women divorce, how do they fight for child custody? Which aspect should we start from to have a greater chance of success? You can find out from the introduction below.

1. Evidence collection of basic conditions of both parties

Collect evidence on the basic conditions of both parties, including but not limited to the nature of work, work environment, income status, living conditions, education level, character cultivation, etc. Through comparative analysis of the basic conditions of both parties, highlight the favorable factors. Even if the basic conditions of the couple, such as salary income, education level, etc., are not very different, it does not mean that there are no differences. For example, the ideological quality of one party is particularly important in fighting for child custody, because the ideological quality of the party who directly raises the child will directly affect the healthy growth of the next generation.

2. Evidence collection of basic conditions of both parents

Many times, it is not usually one of the spouses who actually takes care of the child, especially for preschool children, it is usually one of the parents. Therefore, the child’s previous living environment, as well as the opinions and physical condition of the parents who have been taking care of the child for a long time, are often important aspects that affect child custody.

3. Evidence collection on the child’s living environment

The principle for handling child custody issues in divorce cases is not to affect the healthy growth of the child. If two parties divorce, but one party lives closer to the school or in a mature community, which is most beneficial for the child's study and life, of course the possibility of obtaining custody of the child will be greater. Therefore, evidence collection in this regard is also necessary.

4. Children’s opinions are very important

Generally, when dealing with custody issues, the court will carefully listen to the opinions of children over the age of ten and make notes for the file. Before or during a divorce, it is particularly important to do a good job of ideological work on the children so that they are willing to live with you.

Children over ten years old are generally more mature than our generation, and have a basic understanding of the meaning and consequences of divorce. Although this will cause harm to them, such harm is inevitable. Letting the child be raised by the party who is most beneficial to his or her growth can be considered a remedy.