Extreme people are scary

We all feel that people with extreme personalities around us are scary. This is mainly because the various behaviors of these people are always incredible and difficult to understand, or make people extremely angry but helpless. Extreme people always ask others to do this and that, but never trust others; such people always like to act based on personal feelings and act subjectively; such people cannot live in harmony with their families at home, and it is difficult for them to get along well with friends and colleagues outside.

1. What are the characteristics of extreme people?

1. Being overly conceited, blaming others for setbacks or failures, and always believing that one is right.

2. Being jealous of others and unable to tolerate others’ mistakes.

3. Being argumentative and hostile out of touch with reality, and stubbornly pursuing one’s own irrational “rights” or interests.

4. Ignore or disbelieve objective evidence that is inconsistent with the patient’s ideas. Therefore, it is difficult to change the patient's mind through reasoning or facts.

5. Interpret things around you as a "conspiracy" that does not conform to the actual situation and may become an overvalued concept.

2. How terrible are extreme people?

People with extreme personalities, because they cannot control their emotions, often hurt their family and friends through words and actions. Whenever they lose their family and friends, they feel regretful and painful, but it is all irreversible. Long-term entanglement and depression make these people with extreme personalities more extreme and lonely, and finally they choose the foolish behavior of destroying themselves or others. Extremism is a kind of pathological psychology. People with extreme personalities are always immersed in self-consciousness and always look at others through tinted glasses. Their typical characteristics are generalizing, stubbornness, arrogance, self-centeredness, self-willedness, willfulness, and nitpicking. From the perspective of psychological causes, the formation of extreme personality, in addition to congenital factors, is mostly related to acquired living environment and family education.

3. Causes of extreme personality

This kind of character is caused by two reasons:

1. Lack of experience and practice, unable to look at the people and things around them with a comprehensive and objective mindset, and considering things with subjective thoughts.

2. Teenagers are in adolescence, and they often talk about loyalty. They are prone to temper tantrums due to excessive liver fire, so impulsiveness is inevitable. I believe that the problem can be solved with proper guidance.